When it comes to hurting your partner, we can’t base it on gender that this gender is the one that’s mostly hurt their partner. when it comes to a relationship or marriage a time you will hurt the one you are with knowingly and sometimes you don’t even know that you have hurt him/her as what you have done to you is a non-issue but assuming it doesn’t make him/her feel better instead it makes things worse for both of you, when two love birds part ways and sometimes when they divorce they mostly hurt each other more than they make each other smile, but this doesn’t have to make you keep a grudge.
You may take your time cool down and evaluate everything some time the wrong will win but this is not proof that he/she will always be on the wrong, you should believe that he had learned his lesson the hard way and forgive and forget, accept him/her in your life as you got a future to work on together. getting back to someone’s life who hurt you doesn’t make you less of a man/woman but it makes you a complete being who knows what he/she wants in life and who from the word go he/she knew what he/she wanted.
The man or the woman who gives you a chance after you have hurt him/her, he/she is not a fool and it is not that he/she have accepted you back because he/she won’t have an option but it’s all because he/she knows that human is to error and he/she believes that you have learned your lesson and you will value what you too have together. This is kind of a person that you should not take for granted or take advantage of he/she is someone who deserves total respect from you as this mean that he/she believes in you again if this happens pay him/her back with respect, loyalty, and love.