So many ladies think and believe that having a fit body you are of higher rank in the society, others who are married and who are in what I can call serious relationships think that when you have a fit body your man will be proud of you than he is and at the same time he will love you more. For men too they think that when you have a fit body and what many terms as having six packs you will be on-demand, and due to talks on the internet, everybody is hitting the gym not because of health issues but due to their low self-esteem.
As a man when you meet a woman and you ask her for a chance, not to talk to her but for her to be your lady there is that special appearance that you see, that physical appearance that attracts you for you to approach her as you can’t say that you were attracted by her inner being yet there is no x-ray machine that can show the inner being or his/her personality. Same case with women when you accept her proposal you don’t accept at gunpoint you accept because you like his physical look and size of his body too, and now the issues start when you decide to be one.
Now he/she is not happy with your weight he wants you to hit the gym for you to reduce. when you become one you are supposed to work hard to make your future and know how you can add value to each other life but not to pressure each other over someone weight, the ratio of women is higher than that of men and you are not only supposed to marry that lady when you want to marry looking for a woman who you know you will never pressure to work on her weight or size same case with women accept someone who you will always be proud of.
Life is not challenging each other life is about adding value.