Hi.
It has been 5 years since I married am a father of two and I work in a supermarket, I have a degree In computer science but I have never secured a job that relates with my course my wife whom we met in campus as she was taking a bachelor in education is a teacher, we were in love but unfortunately I impregnated her before we were done with our studies, when her parent learned about it they suggested she get rid of it but she refused something that destroyed their good relation. Her background is well up but I am a son of a farmer but I always work hard to better my position and to provide for my family despite everything we have been happy and we are always a team we discuss everything before we do it and when we combine what we earn we always do something that’s recommendable.
Last two month my wife went home to see her parent and when she came back we have not been the same again she changed she no longer talk about our future she just questions the type of a man I am and always talks about how I don’t give my kids the best she visits her parent often when she comes back home she comes with shopping and the whole of that week she will not talk to me.
I am feeling that am losing my family and I wish you can help me save it.
Hi,
Congratulation on fighting hard for the person you love and for your love too, and also for believing in yourself and accepting the fact that you can have a job that’s outside your career to provide for your family.
One thing that you should know is the woman that you married and the one who was not easily influenced is the same woman who you are with even today, you are the one who to blame as you are always at your comfort zone just because you provide for the family and you have forgotten that there is life outside providing for them.
Make an effort of looking for a job that’s in your paper as you work to provide for them, talk about your great future with her and the kids and she will notice the change she will see the man she got married to and she will concentrate on making you and her family great and not listening to her parent.
Save your family by changing your lifestyle.
All the best.
