Hallo,
I have been I marriage for 15 years now but I think soon I will lose what I have worked hard to build for long, together me and my husband we have 3 kids and we have been a normal family and normal couples we fight but we always have a way to solve things, my husband is kind busy and sometime he don’t get home at all so most of the time am in a company of my friends and I think that’s where I went wrong , last month I got tested and the results were shocking as they turned positive, it have been so hard to face my husband as I am fearing that he might be negative and I am positive meaning I will be sent home and I will be a disgrace to my family, I have been planning to park and leave but all the time I think of my kid I just relax and wait.
Please advice me on what to do.
Hi too,
Am sorry for this but one thing you should know is you don’t know if he too is positive and if he is the one who transmitted it to you, another thing you should face your fear and face him so that if its medication you start together and if you are the one who is positive you will be in a better position to protect him as he protect you too.
There are so many couples who are happy but one is positive while other is negative, it have already happened and you cant reverse it all you have to do is involve him he is the father of your kid he have been with you for 15 years so he will still have a reason o be with you even when he will know the truth.
