I am a 4th-year university student born in a family of 5 kids am the second born, the man I used to call a dad and respected like a dad I have come to realize that despite how nice he is to my mum how he has always supported me in everything that I have always wished to do how he motivates me and how he always wants to see the best side of me that he is not my biological dad and my dad is a well-known politician who I have met by the help of my aunt who knew everything the man who happens to be my biological dad welcomed me and introduced me to his family and told them that am part of the family he has promised me to make me big and to support me to any level that I wanna reach. I am planning to face the man who I have lived to think that he is my dad and tell him that I know who my dad is and I want to move and be with him, I want to do this without being disrespectful and without hurting my mother please advice me on what to do.
You don’t have to worry and you don’t have to ask on what you can do so that you cant be disrespectful nor you can’t hurt your mother because you have already done it doing something behind their back.
The way you met your Dad says that he knew that you existed but still didn’t want you in his life and that’s why he was watching you in a distance what’s this good he has seen in you that has made him come looking for you and accept you back.
The only advice I can give you is to make sure that your mother and dad will never know that you meet him and know that your aunt is misleading you for her own personal gain the man who has been with you that’s your Dad forget the one who is trying to pretend that he cares.