Being a man is an evolution, being a man means your sex is male, being a dad type of clothes you wear and some believe that they are men because they have married and because they are recognized in some gathering and in the pulpit but sex, being a dad, or having a higher lank in any office doesn’t make you a real man either does it make you or earn you respect while at the same time it will take you nowhere we are all born with some physical features that make us be counted and be categorized as men but does that qualifies you to be a real man? And that’s why this article will take you through and discuss with you some of the things that you will follow and get full transformation.
Being real means knowing what you want and standing with what you believe in, some men have and make a decision that they cannot work on later in life i.e most of the relationship is not started to end up in marriages but they are started when a man has the mentality of hitting and running, sometimes it works and sometimes it fails and the lady ends up being pregnant and you and he is forced to marry him and after few years everything fails reason behind everything the man was not real when you decide to be real you are able to say what you want and how you want it done thus making a great decision that no one will ever question.
Values and principles
Always live by values and by principles this will save you from intimidation and life frustration have what you value have guidelines in everything that you are doing and make them strong as when you are doing something sometime hardship may force you to feel that you can’t do it anymore and try to do it in other ways thus welcoming failure in life, stand tall and be who you believe you are.
Something else that shape a man Is the power to fight the hardship, withstanding difficulties and being in a position to recover quickly from all the difficult condition a real man don’t give up and when he is knocked down he doesn’t stay down and if he can’t stand he kneels and later stand and fight the battle with courage and determination.
Being proud or arrogant; modest doesn’t make you a real man as being successful too is not a reason for you not to be humble as you can be humble although successful. Neither having a feeling of insignificance, inferiority, subservience, etc.: don’t make you less of a man more so having low in rank, importance, status, quality, etc.; don’t also make you less instead it makes you be a real man who can be in a position to fit anywhere despite his position which is a key to success and secret to survive and be a man of substance.
Own your mistakes.
Gender balance is happening everywhere and you may end up sharing an office with all gender some time a man feels he is macho and sometimes his ego make him feel that he is not supposed to be questioned by a woman even when he makes mistakes making mistake is normal and owning your mistakes will not make you be less and that’s why some families break as a man believe he can’t make mistakes even when he has been found on the wrong side instead of owning his did he start a fight so that he can be in a position to evade being a man start by knowing that you are human and you can make mistake and anybody can correct you.
Pay attention to advise and seek other wisdom.
Where you are someone else was there despite the level of education someone who doesn’t have the same level of education like you, may know a lot and you should seek advice from him/her as you can’t be Mr. know all where this help in making sure you don’t do things based on attitude and ego this also help you in knowing how to own your mistake and rectify without feeling low or minus something’s, seeking wisdom from other means you want to be successful and you don’t offend or be the weak one.
Being a real man is being someone who people can be in a position to rely upon someone who keeps his word and someone who won’t say yes or no to please someone or to end a heated argument be a man that a company can send somewhere as they believe in you be a man that a lady can be in a position to trust with his life and know that he can take care of his kid always.
Get things done.
Sometimes they say that men are big babies of which sometimes it is true as boys grow when they are their mother favorite and where they are given everything it happens that when a man marries it’s like a transfer from one woman who has been taking care of you to another to continue taking care of you, despite all this how true it is or how true it’s not a man will always be a man and a real man should make sure that thing is done the family is good he is paying bills and he is attending to all that he is supposed to attend always know what’s required of you and always make sure that it’s done in order and it is completely done.
Sometimes you don’t have to pay attention to everything as something are good while ignored as you have to accept that you can’t have everything and you can’t have everyone on your side something else you should know is that you are unique so you should not do all that your friends ask you to nor what they are doing, sometimes ignore what she says as it will save your family and it will boost your happiness.
Being fearless doesn’t mean you be fighting and be facing something physically but it means you to be fearless when it comes to something that concern your life and that of the people who are near you being fearless means risking without knowing what will happen, believing in something even if the percentage of it to go through is very high, it means being confident and means following your words until the end.