Work hard for your family, treat you wife and kids and sometimes treat your parent if they are still alive then later you can treat you, friends, some people think only about how they can make their kids happy as they believe that their wives are no longer worth their special treatment as they changed and they are not who he always thought she was, and this is why most of the time a man will be in the company of his kids and not his wife and this is what gives room to spoiled kids and kids who will always give you as couples a reason to fight and a reason to argue every day.
Treating your kids is not bad as they deserve that and they are entitled to that but sometimes overdoing it will just cause harm to them than making them happy. In the world, there is only one gift that you can give your kid and this gift ill make him/her the best man or woman and as a parent, you will always be proud of him/her. Sometime you will fight with your wife and the argument will heat up but you are not supposed to fight or argue in their presence there is that secret room that you call bedroom that where you are supposed to fight or argue.
Give your kid the best gift in the world is expensive as it requires some sacrifice and perseverance but this is the only gift that you kids need for a lifetime which is just loving their mother and treating her right.
If you really love your kids all they want to see you doing for you to be their hero just love their mother and with these, they will always be happy.