Today I take this chance to communicate to my fellow ladies and beg them to learn from me because if they wait to learn from their own experience they will end up in pain and daily tears that no one will ever wipe. After my four year course just like any other person I joined college where I took nursing and during this time I met with this young man who I started dating he was in college too and we were all good and happy his background was not well up neither mine was but despite all, we shared a room and we were always happy.
After college I secured a job but for him, he didn’t and he ended up doing odd jobs, due to my age I started viewing him as a burden to me and I could go to date with another man behind his back, he came to knew about it but he still continued to show me affection and love. I met this young man who was working in the same hospital-like I and I opted to be with him as I saw that he was well up and mature than my man who was by then the mjengo guy. One day I introduced her to one of the nurses who we worked with what surprised me, he said that he was a contract I smile and kept that to myself.
One day I said enough is enough and I decided to shift while he was away as I already have a man who is showing me much love than he did. I did that and I didn’t care what could happen to the man whom I have been with I blocked him and when he came to see me I always said he be told that am not in, he got tired and stopped coming that’s what I assumed and now I was happy with my new man every weekend he could treat me like a queen.
To make the long story short now am a single mother of 2 kids after the man I choose over my boyfriend went back to his family as he was married and I didn’t know, the man I considered as a boy is now a contractor and he married my best friend the nurse I had introduced her to.
Despite how or who your man is respects him, support him and let him always be the man if I knew this, I could be having someone to wait home every day, I could be having answers to my kid’s questions as they want to know where their dad is. Treat him right and be cautioned about those who try to show you how much they care about you.